Prayer Partner’s Handbook: Unlocking God’s Healing, Deliverance, and Freedom in Spirit, Soul, and Body
Do you want to pray for others but feel unsure or unprepared?
Many Christians long to see others healed, delivered, and set free, but they lack the confidence, clarity, or practical knowledge and understanding to minister and pray effectively. The truth is that God has called every believer to partner with Him in prayer – but too many feel unequipped to step out in faith.
There’ good news. You don’t have to be a pastor or minister to pray powerfully and effectively for healing and deliverance. With the right guidance, you can confidently pray for others, break strongholds, and witness God’s transformative power at work.
This comprehensive handbook is firmly rooted in the truth of God’s Word, with the Bible as the ultimate guide for healing, deliverance, and freedom. Every principle, teaching, and practical step is backed by Scripture, ensuring that you are following God’s path to wholeness. Packed with New King James Version Bible verses, this handbook provides a solid Biblical foundation, allowing you to study, meditate, and apply God’s promises to your life. As you read, you will gain deeper spiritual insight and confidence, knowing that every step toward healing and deliverance is guided by His unchanging Word.
What’s inside this practical handbook?
- How healing and deliverance work – Learn how Jesus ministered healing and deliverance, and how you can follow His simple example today.
- Your role as a prayer partner – Understand how to pray with wisdom, humility, and spiritual authority.
- Breaking spiritual strongholds – Identify and cast out demons, break generational curses and vows, and overcome soul ties and bondages.
- Inner healing and emotional restoration – Help others find freedom from past trauma, fear, unforgiveness and emotional pain.
- Physical healing through prayer – Discover how to pray effectively for sickness and pain, and activate faith for miraculous healing.
- Practical prayer tools – Follow a step-by-step process for healing, deliverance, and post-prayer discipleship.
- Spiritual and ethical safeguards – Learn how to protect yourself and others in prayer ministry, avoiding spiritual burnout and legal risks.
Why this plain English handbook is for you
- If you feel unsure how to pray for others, this handbook gives you the confidence and tools to intercede effectively.
- If you want to see lives changed, you’ll learn how to invite God’s power into any situation.
- If you desire to grow spiritually, this handbook will equip you with Biblical wisdom and simple steps to deepen your prayer life.
- If you want to be part of God’s healing work, this handbook shows you how to step into your calling boldly and confidently.
A powerful trilogy on healing, deliverance, and freedom
True healing and deliverance require a deep understanding of God’s power and how to walk in lasting freedom. This is why three handbooks have been written – to guide you through every stage of your journey:
- Secrets of Divine Healing and Health – Discover how to unlock God’s power for freedom and live in divine healing and health.
- Self-Help Healing and Deliverance Handbook – A practical guide for individuals seeking personal healing, deliverance, and freedom in spirit, soul, and body.
- Prayer Partner’s Handbook – Learn how to pray for others confidently, minister healing and deliverance, and walk in spiritual authority and power.
Each handbook stands alone, but together they offer a complete, in-depth approach to experiencing God’s healing, deliverance, and transformation. Read them all to receive and minister healing with greater understanding and effectiveness.
Step into your calling today
You were made for more than silent prayers. Prayer Partner’s Handbook gives you the knowledge, confidence, and practical tools to pray for healing, deliverance, and transformation – just like Jesus did.
Don’t wait any longer – start praying with authority and power today and unlock God’s healing and deliverance in spirit, soul and body.
Table of Contents
Introduction
- Living in freedom by the power of the Holy Spirit
- What you’ll discover in this book
- Who is this book for?
- Who are prayer partners?
- Let’s begin
Section 1: Foundations of healing and deliverance
What is healing and deliverance?
- The ministry of healing and deliverance
- The healing ministry and role of prayer partners
- Deliverance for believers only
- The Holy Spirit’s role
Salvation: The foundation for healing and deliverance
- Understanding salvation
- Why salvation must come first
- How to check for salvation
- Leading someone in the prayer of salvation
- Prayer of salvation
- Follow-up after salvation
Sōzō – An integrated approach
- What does sōzō mean?
- Practical implications for prayer partners
- Healing and salvation: Two sides of the same coin
- Wholeness and health
- Sample prayer for the prayee
- Sample prayer for prayer partners to fulfil their calling
Understanding healing
- What is healing?
- Healing is God’s will
- Identifying and overcoming roadblocks to healing
- Sample prayer for identifying and overcoming roadblocks to healing
Understanding deliverance
- Demons can cause someone to be unwell
- The nature of spiritual warfare
- Not all illness or suffering is caused by demons
- Jesus Christ has authority over all demons
- Overcoming demonic influence
- Casting out of demons glorifies God
- Sample prayer for deliverance ministry
The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit
- The role of the Father
- The role of the Son (Jesus Christ)
- The role of the Holy Spirit
- Key takeaway for prayer partners
- Sample prayer for deliverance ministry
Section 2: Understanding human complexity
Understanding human complexity
- Spirit, soul, and body
- Exploring the spirit, soul, and body connection
- An integrated approach to healing
- Relationship between inner healing and deliverance
- Sample prayer for an integrated approach
Understanding soul ties
- What are soul ties?
- Types of soul ties
- How are ungodly soul ties formed?
- The consequences of ungodly soul ties
- How to break ungodly soul ties
- Sample prayer for breaking unhealthy soul ties
Personalities, the flesh and external influence
- Human disposition (character flaws)
- The flesh
- External demonic influence from the enemy
- Distinguishing between dispositional and spiritual issues
- Sample prayer for discernment in understanding struggles
Generational sins, curses and iniquities
- Generational sins: Breaking the cycle of repeated behaviour
- Generational curses: Breaking spiritual bondage
- Generational iniquities: Addressing deep-rooted sin
- Why “generational iniquity” is the preferred
- Sample prayer for breaking generational sins and curses
Culture and customs
- Consuming blood
- Eating food offered to idols
- Practising divination, sorcery, or witchcraft
- Navigating cultural sensitivity
- Sample prayer for navigating customs with sensitivity
Section 3: Jesus as our model
How Jesus ministered to people
- Heart attitude – invisible traits
- Practical ways – visible actions
- Sample prayer to minister like Jesus
Take risks for Jesus: Fear god, not man
- What does it mean to fear God, not man?
- Jesus took risks for the kingdom
- Taking risks in prayer ministry
- What the Bible says if we fear man and not God
- Overcoming the fear of man
- The reward of risk-taking
- Sample prayer for courage to take risks for Jesus
How Jesus heals the broken heart
- Key insights from Kings :-
- The process of inner healing
- Encountering Jesus
- Heal the broken heart first
- Ministering to the broken heart
- Sample prayer for inner healing
How did Jesus cast out demons
- Mark 5:8
- Mark 9:25
- Luke 4:35
- Luke 8:30
Section 4: Spiritual insights and discernment
Humility and dependence on the Holy Spirit
- Seeing what the Father does
- Shifting atmospheres in partnership with the Holy Spirit
- Practical ways to shift atmospheres
- Sample prayer for humility and discernment in ministry
Spiritual insights, discernment, and wisdom
- Spiritual insights
- Discernment
- Wisdom
- Implications for prayer partners
- Sample prayer for spiritual insights, discernment, and wisdom
Hearing the voice of God
- The importance of hearing God’s voice
- Four keys to hearing God
- Removing barriers to hearing God
- Sample prayer to hear God’s voice
Words of knowledge and prophetic words
- What are words of knowledge?
- What are prophetic words?
- Importance to healing and deliverance ministry
- Using these gifts strategically
- Caution and accountability
- Sample prayer for using words of knowledge and prophetic words
Demonstrating the fruit of the Spirit
- Why does the fruit of the spirit matter?
- Each fruit matters
- Practical steps to cultivate the fruit
- Sample prayer to cultivate the fruit of the Holy Spirit
Section 5: Practical steps for healing and deliverance
The prayer of faith
- What is faith?
- Healing follows from faith in God
- Faith of the person seeking healing
- Faith of those praying for healing
- Sample prayer of faith for healing
Understanding power and authority
- What is power?
- What is authority?
- The source of power and authority
- Pray from a position of victory
- Freely you have received; freely give
- “Drive out all demons” then “cure diseases”
- Sample prayer for alignment with God’s will
5-Step healing and deliverance process
- Step 1 – Interview: Understanding the need
- Step 2 – Diagnosis: Identifying root causes
- Step 3 – Prayer selection: Ministering integrated healing and deliverance
- Step 4 – Feedback: Evaluating the impact
- Step 5 – Post-prayer instructions: Securing the healing and deliverance
- Sample prayer for using the -step process
Key principles for integrated healing
- Remain flexible and Spirit-led throughout the process
- Break strongholds by exposing lies and replacing them with God’s truth
- Forgive God, others, and yourself
- Healing and deliverance are interconnected
- Address healing holistically – spirit, soul, and body
- Build trust through active listening and compassionate presence
- Stay within your authority and knowledge boundaries
- Maintain connection with your prayer team and leadership
- Document patterns and testimonies for future reference
- Sample prayer for holistic healing
Pray for physical healing
- Pray boldly and with expectation
- Listen to spiritual guidance
- Act in faith
- Invite the Holy Spirit
- Command the sickness to leave
- Encourage them to test their healing
- Persist in prayer and faith
- Identifying and addressing blockages to healing
- Faith and medical considerations
Rejecting ungodly beliefs
- Why help others overcome ungodly beliefs
- How to overcome ungodly beliefs
- Key scriptures to overcome ungodly beliefs
- Sample payer to identify and renounce ungodly beliefs
Overcoming unhealthy beliefs
- Why help others overcome unhealthy beliefs
- How to overcome unhealthy beliefs
- Sample prayer to help overcome unhealthy beliefs
The power of positive memories in inner healing
- Why positive memories matter
- Steps to use positive memories in prayer ministry
- Sample prayer to reconnect with positive memories
Prayer styles for soul pains
- Participatory prayer: Empowering the individual to connect with God
- Directive prayer: Stepping in when guidance is needed
- Choosing the right approach
- Combining both styles
Inner healing and soul restoration
- Directive prayer style for inner healing
Section 6: Overcoming spiritual strongholds
Pulling down of strongholds
- Why pull-down strongholds?
- Directive prayer style
- Participatory prayer style
Identifying demonic influence
- Identifying and closely doorways to demonic influence
How does deliverance ministry work?
- Jesus’s deliverance ministry
- The journey to freedom through deliverance
- Avoiding the devil’s foothold
- Identifying open doors
- Closing opened doors
- Staying free through sanctification and discipleship
Ground rules for deliverance
- The nature of deliverance ministry
- Ground rules for deliverance
- Deciding whether to minister individually or as a couple
- Stirring up compassion
Casting out demons
- Understanding principalities and powers
- Preparing for deliverance sessions
- Command evil spirits to “come out” and leave
- Modelling effective deliverance ministry
How to cast out demons
- Help the person relax
- Instruct the person how to cooperate with you
- Practical instructions for the person receiving deliverance
- Command the spirits with authority
- Breaking agreements formed with evil spirits
- Deliverance process: Practical steps for prayer partners
- Persist until there is a release
- Aids should be used only as led by the Holy Spirit
- Possible manifestations during deliverance
- Exit routes for demons
- How to know the spirits have gone
- Immediately after deliverance
Displacement of demons
- Releasing blessings to counter affliction
- Understanding the displacement of demons
- Steps to displace demons
- A practical example of displacement
Demons manifest
- How to spot the manifestation of demons
- Recognising possible signs of demonisation
- What prayer partners should do when demons manifest
Overcome specific human dispositions
- Directive prayer style
- Participatory prayer style
Section 7: Special topics in ministry
Can evil spirits live on the inside of a Christian?
- Christians are NOT owned by demons
- “Demon-possessed” or “had demons”?
- Understanding spirit, soul, and body
- Can an evil spirit inhabit a Christian?
- Arguments for and against
- Guidance for prayer partners
- Sample prayer for sensitivity and discernment
Sickness and spiritual deliverance
- Sickness as a natural phenomenon
- Sickness with a potential spiritual connection
- Sickness not unto death
- Death and healing
- Sample prayer for healing and restoration
The prayee must want, not just be willing, to be free
- The prayee must want freedom
- Willingness to cooperate with the Holy Spirit
- Willingness to cooperate with the prayer partner
- Why these qualities are important
- How the prayer partner can help
- Sample prayer for the prayee
Why some people are not delivered
- Issues with the person ministering deliverance
- Issues with the person being delivered
- Overcoming barriers to deliverance
Post-deliverance care and follow-up
- Understanding the need for follow-up
- Encourage lifestyle changes
Discipleship and sustainable freedom
- Aim of inner healing and deliverance
- Helping people rebuild their lives
- Helping others put on the armour of God
- Developing and sustaining daily spiritual practices
- Long-term spiritual growth strategies
House cleansing
- Why house cleansing matters
- Key areas to deal with in-house cleansing
- How to cleanse the house
- Instructions to house owner
- Practical steps and sample prayers for specific items
- Maintaining a cleanse home
- The power of a cleansed home
- Special topics in healing and deliverance
Authority to forgive someone’s sins
- Restoring broken relationships with God
- Restoring broken relationships with people
- Restoring broken relationships with self
- Vows
- Curses
- Ungodly oaths and promises
- Addressing trauma and abuse with sensitivity
- Addictions and compulsive behaviours
- Freemasonry
- New age practices
- Shock and trauma
- Depression
- Anxiety disorders
- Substance use disorders
- Burnout and stress-related disorders
Section 8: Preparing and sustaining your ministry
Being a bondservant of God and Jesus
- Who is a bondservant?
- Bondservant of God
- Bondservant of the Lord Jesus Christ
- Practical considerations for ministry
- Practical ways to become a bondservant
- Sample prayer to become a good bondservant of God
Essential principles for prayer ministry
- Reliance and dependence on His power and grace
- Sensitivity to the Holy Spirit
- Sovereignty of God to heal and deliver
- Walking in love, humility, and compassion
- Faith: the roles of the prayer partner and the recipient
- The power of prayer and fasting in breakthrough ministry
- Guarding against pride and striving
- Maintaining spiritual armour
- Prioritising personal spiritual health
Preparing to be a prayer partner
- Understanding the delegated authority of believers
- Spiritual disciplines for ministry readiness
- Developing your spiritual life
- Model for living victoriously in Christ
Common fears and how to overcome them
- Fear of inadequacy
- Fear of failure
- Fear of confrontation
- Personal limitations
- Lack of confidence in hearing God’s voice
- Dealing with discouragement
Ministry guidelines for prayer partners
- Preparing and creating a healing environment
- Preparing for a healing or deliverance session
- General ministering guidelines
- Quick instructions for the prayer partner
- Ministering in different settings
Strengthening, encouraging, and comforting
- Strengthening
- Encouraging
- Comforting
- Sample prayer to strengthen, encourage, and comfort
How to recognise a spiritual attack
- Before ministry
- During ministry
- After ministry
Sustaining your prayer ministry calling
- Authority grows with use
- Practice, practice, practice
- Embracing your calling with faith and obedience
- Maintaining spiritual health
- Preventing burnout
Section 9: Legal and ethical considerations
Sexual orientation, gender identity
- Overview of laws and regulations
- Practical steps for prayer partners
- Be cautious of intentional traps
- Sample response to prayer requests
Safeguarding children
- Why child protection matters
- Legal frameworks and requirements
- Parental or guardian consent
- Dos and don’ts of ministering to children
- Recognising signs of abuse
- Practical guidelines for prayer partners
Other legal considerations for the ministry
- Mandatory reporting laws
- Confidentiality and privacy laws
- Consent and autonomy
- Defamation Laws
- Discrimination and equal opportunity laws
- Health and safety regulations
- Professional conduct
- What about volunteers?
- Assault and battery laws
- Financial transparency laws
- False advertising and misrepresentation laws
Risk management and insurance
- Common scenarios and how to handle them
Waiver form for prayer ministry
- Voluntary participation and release of liability form
Appendix – Deliverance questionnaire
- Answer the questions honestly