45 Biblical Questions for Discovering Your God-Given Purpose

Understanding God’s Call on Your Life

Before working through these questions, grasp this foundational truth: Your purpose is not something you invent. It’s something you discover through understanding how God has already called, equipped, and positioned you.

The question “What is my purpose?” is not primarily about finding the perfect career, achieving great things, or making your mark on the world. It’s about understanding your God-ordained mission within:

God’s redemptive purposes (making disciples and glorifying Him).
Your unique design (gifts, passions, experiences God has given you).
Your current context (the season, location, and relationships where God has placed you).
The Body of Christ (your contribution to building up the church).

This is not about personal fulfilment or self-actualisation. This is about discovering and faithfully executing the specific assignments God has given you for His glory.

The Foundation: The Hierarchy of Biblical Calling

Getting the order right

Just as with identity and belonging, there’s a biblical hierarchy to calling. Getting this wrong will cause years of confusion and frustration.

1. Your Primary Calling (Universal for every Christian)

This is your main assignment from God. Every believer shares these same callings:

Be saved and live a holy life (1 Peter 1:15-16).
Love God with everything you have (Matthew 22:37-38).
Love others as yourself (Matthew 22:39).
Make disciples and share the gospel (Matthew 28:19-20).
Do everything for God’s glory (1 Corinthians 10:31).

2. Your Relational Callings (Your life stations)

These are the roles God has placed you in right now:

Spouse, parent, or child (Ephesians 5-6).
Member of a local church (Hebrews 10:24-25).
Citizen of your country (Romans 13:1-7).
Neighbour in your community (Luke 10:27).

3. Your Specific Calling (Your unique assignment)

This is the way God wants to use your unique gifts and circumstances:

Your job or career (1 Corinthians 7:17-24).
Your spiritual gifts and talents (1 Peter 4:10).
Your specific assignments for His kingdom (Esther 4:14).

The non-negotiable principle

Never pursue your specific calling at the expense of your primary calling or relational callings.

If you neglect your relationship with God, ignore your family, or abandon your church to chase a “calling,” you’ve left God’s will. Your specific calling should flow from and strengthen your primary and relational callings, not compete with them.

All work is sacred

You don’t need to be a pastor, missionary, or ministry leader to serve God. A builder constructing homes to God’s glory is just as sacred as a preacher preaching sermons.

As William Tyndale said: “There is no work better than another to please God: to pour water, to wash dishes, to be a cobbler, or an apostle, all are one.”

You already have a calling from God. The question is: Will you faithfully fulfil it?

Part 1: Foundation Questions – Start Here First

These questions deal with your heart, character, and relationship with God. If these aren’t right, the rest won’t matter.

1. Are You Praying About This?

Scripture: James 4:2, John 14:13, Philippians 4:6

Have you asked God to reveal His purpose for your life? Prayer isn’t about getting God to do what you want. It’s about aligning yourself with what He already wants.

Ask yourself:

When was the last time I specifically asked God to show me His purpose?
Am I spending more time worrying about my purpose than praying about it?
Have I invited God into this discovery process, or am I trying to figure it out alone?

Prayer truth: God is more interested in revealing your purpose than you are in discovering it. But you must ask, seek, and knock.

2. Does This Align with Scripture?

Scripture: 2 Timothy 3:16-17, Psalm 119:105

God will never call you to do something that contradicts His written Word. The Bible is your primary source for knowing God’s will.

Ask yourself:

Does my perceived calling require me to disobey any biblical command?
Am I twisting Scripture to justify what I want to do?
Have I studied what the Bible says about this area?

Scripture truth: God’s specific will for you will never contradict His revealed will in Scripture. Test everything against the Word.

3. Am I Walking in Obedience in Small Things?

Scripture: Luke 16:10, Matthew 25:21

Are you faithful with what God has already given you? God rarely reveals the next chapter until you’ve faithfully completed the current page.

Ask yourself:

Am I obeying God in the little things He’s already asked me to do?
Am I looking for something “bigger” because I’m bored with being faithful where I am?
Can I be trusted with more responsibility?

Faithfulness truth: If you’re not faithful in small, mundane tasks, why would God entrust you with greater assignments? Prove yourself in little before asking for much.

4. What Sin or Fear Is Holding Me Back?

Scripture: Hebrews 12:1, 1 John 4:18

Unrepented sin and unaddressed fear are major barriers to discovering and walking in your purpose.

Ask yourself:

Is there unforgiveness, pride, lust, greed, or anxiety I’m harbouring?
What am I afraid of? Failure? Rejection? Poverty? Suffering?
Am I willing to confess this and get help?

Freedom truth: Sin and fear are chains that prevent you from running the race God has set before you. Deal with them ruthlessly.

5. Am I Seeking God’s Approval or People’s Approval?

Scripture: Galatians 1:10, Proverbs 29:25

Whose opinion matters most when you make decisions? People-pleasing will derail your God-given purpose every time.

Ask yourself:

Am I more concerned about disappointing God or disappointing people?
Do I need others’ applause to feel my work is valuable?
Would I still pursue this if no one ever knew about it?

Approval truth: The fear of man is a snare. The fear of God is wisdom. Live for an audience of One.

6. Am I Saturating My Mind with Scripture?

Scripture: Psalm 119:11, Joshua 1:8, Colossians 3:16

God primarily reveals His will through His written Word, not through feelings, hunches, or signs. Are you spending more time seeking “personal revelation” than studying the Bible?

Ask yourself:

How much time do I spend reading the Bible compared to scrolling social media?
Am I memorising and meditating on Scripture?
Do I know God’s Word well enough to recognise His voice?

Word truth: The more Scripture saturates your mind, the clearer God’s purposes become. His Word is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path.

7. Am I Willing to Be Told “Not Yet” or “Not This”?

Scripture: Acts 16:6-7, 2 Corinthians 12:8-9, 2 Samuel 7:1-13

Can you accept that God might say “No” or “Wait” to what you think is your calling? God told David he couldn’t build the temple. Paul was prevented from going to Asia. Sometimes God’s “No” is His greatest mercy.

Ask yourself:

Can I trust God if He says, “Not now” or “Not this”?
Am I willing to surrender my dreams if they’re not His dreams for me?
Will I still love and serve God if He never gives me this “calling”?

Surrender truth: Your willingness to release what you think is your calling is often the prerequisite to discovering your actual calling.

8. Am I Content Where I Am Right Now?

Scripture: 1 Corinthians 7:17-24, Philippians 4:11-13, 1 Timothy 6:6-8

Have you considered that God’s will might be for you to remain exactly where you are and find contentment there? Many people chase “purpose” when God is calling them to contentment.

Ask yourself:

Am I running away from something difficult rather than running toward something God wants?
Have I despised my current circumstances as “beneath me”?
Can I glorify God right where I am, even if nothing changes?

Contentment truth: Sometimes God’s calling is to be faithfully content right where you are. Don’t despise the ordinary. God may be sanctifying you through it.

Part 2: Character and Readiness Questions

These questions test whether you’re ready for what you think God is calling you to.

9. Are You Ready to Give Up What’s Required?

Scripture: Matthew 16:24-25, Mark 10:17-31, Luke 14:33

Are you willing to sacrifice your comfort, income, reputation, or plans for God’s calling? The rich young ruler said he wanted to follow Jesus but wasn’t willing to let go when it mattered.

Ask yourself:

What is God asking me to sacrifice?
Am I making excuses for why I “need” to hold onto certain things?
Am I willing to give up my good life for God’s greater calling?

Important note: This doesn’t mean being reckless or failing to provide for your family (1 Timothy 5:8). But it does mean prioritising God’s will over your comfort.

Sacrifice truth: Every genuine calling requires sacrifice. Count the cost. Are you willing to pay it?

10. Have I Been Tested in Smaller Things First?

Scripture: Luke 16:10, 1 Timothy 3:6, 1 Timothy 3:10

Are you seeking something significant before you’ve proven faithful in insignificant tasks? Joseph, David, and even Jesus served in obscurity before public ministry.

Ask yourself:

Have I been faithful in hidden, humble tasks?
Am I impatient for recognition or influence?
Am I willing to wait for God’s timing?

Testing truth: God tests faithfulness in private before granting responsibility in public. Embrace the hidden years—they’re preparation, not punishment.

11. Am I Willing to Be Misunderstood?

Scripture: John 7:5, Acts 26:24, 1 Peter 2:20, 4:15-16

Even Jesus’ family thought He’d lost His mind. Are you prepared for others to question your calling?

Ask yourself:

Can I handle criticism and doubt from people I respect?
Am I willing to look foolish for God’s sake?
Can I distinguish between suffering for righteousness versus suffering for foolishness?

Balance needed: Make sure you’re misunderstood for righteousness, not for foolishness or sin. There’s a difference between suffering for doing right and suffering for doing wrong (1 Peter 2:20).

Misunderstanding truth: If you need everyone to understand and approve, you’ll never walk in bold obedience. Be prepared to be misunderstood.

12. If Pursuing Ministry: Am I Biblically Qualified?

Scripture: 1 Timothy 3:1-13, Titus 1:5-9, James 3:1

If you’re sensing a call to church leadership or ministry: Do you meet the biblical qualifications? Are you above reproach? Does your character match your aspiration?

Ask yourself:

Do I meet the character requirements in 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1?
Would my family, church, and neighbours affirm my character?
Am I pursuing this for the right reasons?

Warning: Not everyone who desires ministry is qualified for it. Biblical standards exist to protect you and those you’d serve. Don’t ignore them.

13. Does This Require Neglecting Current Responsibilities?

Scripture: 1 Timothy 5:8, Ephesians 6:4, 1 Timothy 3:4-5

Would pursuing this “calling” require you to neglect your spouse, children, or current biblical obligations?

Ask yourself:

Will this harm my marriage or family?
Am I running from my responsibilities at home to pursue “ministry”?
If I can’t manage my household well, why do I think I’m ready for more?

Clear truth: God never calls you to sin by disobeying His clear commands. A man who can’t manage his own household isn’t qualified for church leadership.

14. What Am I Doing with My Current Resources?

Scripture: Matthew 25:14-30 (Parable of the Talents)

God evaluates stewardship before expansion. How are you using your current time, money, relationships, and opportunities?

Ask yourself:

Am I investing what I have or burying it out of fear?
Am I being faithful with little before asking for much?
What am I doing with what God has already given me?

Stewardship truth: God doesn’t give you more until you’ve faithfully stewarded what you already have. Use what’s in your hand.

15. Am I Willing to Suffer for This?

Scripture: 2 Timothy 3:12, Acts 14:22, 1 Peter 2:21, Philippians 1:29

All genuine callings involve sacrifice and often suffering. What cause are you willing to endure hardship to accomplish?

Ask yourself:

Am I willing to be faithful even when it’s painful?
Can I endure opposition, criticism, and difficulty?
What reveals my calling: what I’ll persevere through, not what’s comfortable.

Deep truth: God doesn’t just call us to tasks. Sometimes He calls us to suffering itself.

16. Am I Willing to Fail by the World’s Standards?

Scripture: 2 Corinthians 12:9-10, Hebrews 11:36-40, Acts 20:24

Are you willing to be faithful even if you appear to fail by worldly standards? Many biblical heroes died without seeing the fulfilment of their calling.

Think about:

Jeremiah’s ministry: mostly rejected.
Noah: only 8 people saved.
Jesus: crucified as a criminal.
Hebrews 11 heroes: many “did not receive what was promised”.

Ask yourself:

Can I be obedient even if I never see “success”?
Am I more concerned with fruitfulness or faithfulness?
Will I serve God even if He never gives me visible results?

Success truth: Faithfulness is success in God’s eyes, even if it looks like failure in the world’s eyes. Are you willing to fail successfully?

Part 3: Community and Accountability Questions

God rarely reveals calling in isolation. These questions help you test your calling through relationships.

17. What Counsel Are Godly Mentors Giving Me?

Scripture: Proverbs 11:14, Proverbs 15:22

Are you seeking wisdom from spiritually mature believers? What patterns do you notice in their guidance?

Ask yourself:

Have I asked multiple mature Christians for input?
Are they all saying something similar?
Am I listening or just looking for someone to agree with me?

Wisdom truth: Multiple godly counsellors confirming the same direction often indicates God’s leading. One person could be wrong; multiple mature believers rarely are.

18. What Do My Church Leaders Observe?

Scripture: 1 Corinthians 12:7, Acts 13:1-3

How has your church community, especially your pastors and elders, recognised and affirmed your gifts? Where do they see you thriving and bearing fruit?

Ask yourself:

Have my pastors/elders affirmed this direction?
Does my church see what I see in my gifts?
Am I submitted to church leadership or going rogue?

Key truth: The church often confirms calling through affirmation, opportunities, and fruit. If your church doesn’t see it, that’s a serious warning sign.

19. Am I Pursuing This in Secret or in Accountability?

Scripture: Proverbs 11:14, Proverbs 15:22, James 5:16

Are you hiding your plans from spiritual authority? Are you resisting accountability because you know others would caution you?

Ask yourself:

Why am I keeping this to myself?
Am I afraid of what mature Christians will say?
Do I secretly know this isn’t wise, but I want it anyway?

Warning: If you’re afraid to submit this to your church leadership, that’s a massive red flag. Secrecy often indicates self-deception.

20. Am I Isolated or in Biblical Community?

Scripture: Hebrews 10:24-25, Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

Are you pursuing purpose alone, or are you surrounded by believers who can encourage, correct, and sharpen you?

Ask yourself:

Do I have genuine Christian community?
Am I accountable to anyone?
Why am I distancing myself from other believers?

Community truth: Isolation is spiritually dangerous. God’s purposes are discovered and fulfilled in community, not alone. Lone rangers get picked off.

21. Does My Spouse Have Peace About This? (If Married)

Scripture: Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:22-33, 1 Peter 3:7

For married individuals: Is your spouse in agreement? Are you moving forward in unity, or are you convinced you’re right despite their objections?

Ask yourself:

Is my spouse genuinely at peace with this direction?
Am I pressuring or manipulating them to agree?
Am I willing to wait until we have unity?

Vital truth: God speaks to married couples as a unit. If your spouse isn’t sensing the same leading, wait until there’s unity or reconsider entirely.

22. What Do Others Consistently Ask You For Help With?

Scripture: 1 Peter 4:10, Romans 12:6-8

Others often see your gifts before you recognise them yourself. What do people naturally come to you for?

Ask yourself:

What do friends and family ask me to help with?
What do people say I’m good at?
Where do others see me thrive?

Affirmation indicator: Pay attention to consistent patterns. If multiple people keep asking for the same type of help, that’s a clue to your gifting.

23. Are You Pursuing This as Part of the Body or Alone?

Scripture: 1 Corinthians 12:12-27, Ephesians 4:11-16

Are you thinking of your calling individualistically, or as part of Christ’s body? Rugged individualism isn’t biblical.

Ask yourself:

How does this calling serve the church?
Am I a lone ranger Christian?
Do I see my gifts as belonging to me or to the body?

Body truth: Your calling exists within and for the body of Christ, not as a solo venture. If your “calling” isolates you from the church, it’s not from God.

Part 4: Circumstance and Providence Questions

These questions help you recognise God’s hand in your current situation.

24. What Doors Is God Opening?

Scripture: Revelation 3:8, 1 Corinthians 16:9

What opportunities keep presenting themselves without your manipulation? What doors open effortlessly whilst others remain stubbornly closed?

Ask yourself:

Where are opportunities appearing naturally?
What doors open without me forcing them?
Where is God clearly making a way?

Caution: Open doors aren’t always God’s invitation. Satan can open doors to temptation too. Notice that 1 Corinthians 16:9 mentions “adversaries” alongside open doors. Test everything.

25. What Doors Is God Closing?

Scripture: Acts 16:6-10

Sometimes God directs us by shutting doors. What paths have you tried that consistently don’t work out?

Ask yourself:

What have I tried repeatedly that doesn’t work?
Am I fighting against closed doors instead of accepting redirection?
Could these closed doors be God’s protection?

Closed door truth: Closed doors aren’t always rejection. They’re often redirection toward something better. Stop forcing doors God has shut.

26. What Season of Life Am I In?

Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, Titus 2:3-5

Different seasons require different expressions of purpose. Are you in a season of raising small children, caring for elderly parents, recovering from illness, or greater freedom?

Ask yourself:

What season am I in right now?
Is this the right time, or am I trying to force something prematurely?
How might my calling look different in this season?

Seasonal truth: God’s calling may look very different across various life stages whilst remaining consistent in essence. A mother of toddlers serves differently than an empty nester.

27. What Resources Has God Already Given Me?

Scripture: Exodus 4:2 (“What is in your hand?”)

What skills, education, experiences, relationships, or platforms do you already possess? God often uses what’s already in your hand.

Ask yourself:

What do I already have that I’m overlooking?
Am I waiting for resources I don’t have whilst ignoring what I do have?
How can I use what’s already in front of me?

Resources truth: Stop waiting for what you don’t have. Start using what you do have. God blesses what you give Him to work with.

28. Who Has God Placed in My Path?

Scripture: Esther 4:14, Acts 8:26-29

God orchestrates divine appointments. Who keeps appearing in your life? What groups of people are you naturally drawn to or keep encountering?

Ask yourself:

Who has God strategically positioned around me?
What populations keep crossing my path?
Could these be clues to my calling?

Divine appointments: Your calling often connects to the people God strategically positions in your sphere of influence. Pay attention to recurring relational patterns.

29. Have I Waited Long Enough to Test This?

Scripture: Ecclesiastes 5:2, James 1:19, Psalm 27:14

Have you given enough time to test whether this is enduring conviction or temporary enthusiasm?

Ask yourself:

How long have I felt this way?
Does this persist through different moods and seasons?
Am I rushing, or am I willing to wait for clarity?

Testing truth: Many “callings” are temporary passions. True calling endures through multiple seasons and circumstances. Give it time to prove itself.

Part 5: Self-Awareness and Design Questions

These questions help you understand how God uniquely designed you.

Caution: These are helpful but must be balanced with objective biblical criteria. Your feelings can deceive you.

30. Are You Overthinking This?

Scripture: Proverbs 3:5-6, Isaiah 55:8-9, 2 Corinthians 10:5

Are you reasoning your way out of what God is revealing? God’s plans don’t always make logical sense. His preparation often makes even less sense.

Ask yourself:

Am I waiting for everything to make perfect sense before I obey?
Am I dismissing what God is asking because it doesn’t fit my expectations?
Am I analysing instead of obeying?

Clarification: Overthinking isn’t deep study of Scripture or seeking wise counsel. It’s endless analysis that delays obedience. When God speaks clearly, move. Don’t contemplate, interrogate, or vacillate.

Obedience truth: Sometimes you need to stop thinking and start doing. Analysis paralysis prevents obedience. Take the next step, even if you don’t see the whole staircase.

31. What Biblical Burdens Has God Given Me?

Scripture: Nehemiah 1:3-4, Matthew 9:36

What injustice, suffering, or need consistently moves you to tears or action? God often plants compassion in our hearts for areas He’s calling us to serve.

Ask yourself:

What breaks my heart when I see it?
What makes me angry in a righteous way?
What need keeps coming back to my attention?

Balance needed: Not every burden is yours to carry. God may break your heart over something to teach you intercession, not necessarily direct action. Seek confirmation before assuming burden equals assignment.

32. What Activities Produce Spiritual Fruit When You Do Them?

Scripture: Psalm 37:4, Ecclesiastes 3:22, John 15:5

God designed you to find satisfaction in certain activities. But be careful: this isn’t about what feels good. It’s about what produces lasting spiritual fruit and glorifies God.

Ask yourself:

What activities make me lose track of time in a healthy way?
Where do I see genuine spiritual fruit, not just personal satisfaction?
What work glorifies God and serves others, not just entertains me?

Warning: Joy alone is not a reliable indicator of calling. Hebrews 11:25 (NKJV) speaks of “passing pleasures of sin.” Your feelings can deceive you. Test joy with fruit. Is God being glorified? Are lives being changed?

33. What Problems Do You Notice That Others Don’t?

Scripture: Nehemiah 2:17-18, Exodus 2:11-12

God gives vision to those He’s calling to solve specific problems. What inefficiencies, gaps, or needs do you spot that seem invisible to others?

Ask yourself:

What makes me say, “Why doesn’t someone fix this?”
What solutions do I see that others miss?
What needs are obvious to me but overlooked by others?

Balance: Don’t assume every problem you see is yours to fix. Seek confirmation from Scripture and the church. But persistent vision for specific problems is often a calling indicator.

34. What Consistent Patterns Has God Woven Through Your Life?

Scripture: Jeremiah 1:5, Psalm 139:13-16, Ephesians 2:10

Are there consistent interests, abilities, or experiences—from childhood to now—that reveal how God has uniquely shaped you?

Ask yourself:

What themes keep appearing in my life?
What abilities have been consistent over time?
How has God used even my painful experiences to prepare me?

Important clarification: This isn’t saying “What did you love as a child?” and assuming that’s your calling. Many biblical figures had major calling shifts (Moses, Paul, and David). Rather, look for God’s consistent work in shaping you over time, including redemption from your past.

35. Are You Pretending to Be Someone You’re Not?

Scripture: Psalm 139:13-16, Ephesians 2:10, 1 Peter 4:10

Are you living according to others’ expectations instead of how God designed you? Have you hidden parts of your personality or gifts to fit someone else’s mould?

Ask yourself:

Am I trying to be someone I’m not?
What parts of how God made me have I suppressed?
Whose expectations am I living under God’s or others’?

Authenticity truth: God created you with unique design. Don’t deny how He made you. But also don’t use “God made me this way” to excuse sin or selfishness.

36. Is Your “But” Too Big?

Scripture: Philippians 4:13, 2 Corinthians 12:9-10, Exodus 3-4

Do you have a problem for every solution? Are your excuses bigger than your faith? Do you immediately follow thoughts about God’s calling with “but I don’t have money,” “but I’m not qualified,” or “but I don’t have time”?

Ask yourself:

What excuses am I using to avoid stepping into purpose?
Are my “buts” overriding my belief in God?
Can I flip the script and start with “But God…” instead?

Excuse truth: Moses gave five excuses to God. God answered every one. Your excuses aren’t bigger than God’s ability. Stop making excuses and start making progress.

Part 6: Testing and Motivation Questions

These final questions test your motives and confirm genuine calling.

37. Are You Seeking Glory or Service?

Scripture: Matthew 20:25-28, John 7:18, Philippians 2:3-8

Do you want this calling because of the platform, influence, or recognition it provides? Or are you willing to serve in obscurity?

Ask yourself:

Would I still do this if no one ever knew?
Am I excited about the service or the spotlight?
Whose glory am I seeking mine or God’s?

Jesus’ words: “The greatest among you must be servant of all.” Is your pursuit of purpose about your glory or God’s glory? Be ruthlessly honest.

38. Are You Running FROM Something or TO God?

Scripture: Jonah 1:3, 1 Kings 19:3-4, Psalm 139:7-12

Are you pursuing this new direction to escape current difficulties, responsibilities, or uncomfortable circumstances God has you in?

Ask yourself:

Am I running away from something hard?
Is this about escaping or obeying?
What am I avoiding by pursuing this “new calling”?

Warning: Jonah ran from his calling. Moses tried to flee Egypt. Sometimes what feels like a “new calling” is avoidance of your current calling.

39. If God’s Glory Were Your Only Concern, What Would You Do?

Scripture: Matthew 6:33, Philippians 4:19, 1 Corinthians 10:31

Remove all other considerations like money, comfort, reputation, and security. If God’s glory were your only concern (whether that meant poverty or prosperity), what would you pursue?

Ask yourself:

What would I do if I cared only about God’s glory?
Am I more concerned with my blessing or His glory?
Would I be willing to pursue this even if it cost me everything?

Note: This is different from “if money were no object”. That question can feed selfish ambition. This question forces you to consider: is God’s glory genuinely your highest priority?

40. What Legacy Points to God’s Glory?

Scripture: 2 Timothy 4:7, Hebrews 11, Matthew 25:21

When you stand before God, what do you want to hear Him say about your faithfulness?

Ask yourself:

Do I want to hear “Well done, good and faithful servant”?
What impact do I want my life to have for God’s kingdom?
If I died today, what would my life have said about God?

Caution: This can promote pride if focused on your accomplishments. Keep the focus on God’s glory and your faithfulness, not your achievements.

41. Where Do My Gifts Meet the World’s Need?

Scripture: Acts 20:24, Mark 10:45

Where does what God has equipped you to do meet a genuine need in the world? Purpose often lives at this intersection.

Ask yourself:

How can my gifts serve others?
Where is there real need that matches my abilities?
Is this about serving or about my satisfaction?

Balance: God may call you where there’s need but no passion; that is to develop your character and dependence on Him. Don’t make passion the ultimate test.

42. What Is Producing Spiritual Fruit?

Scripture: Matthew 7:16-20, John 15:5, Galatians 5:22-23

Where are you seeing tangible results, changed lives, or lasting spiritual impact? What efforts are producing genuine spiritual fruit?

Ask yourself:

Where is God blessing my efforts with multiplication?
Are lives being genuinely changed?
Am I seeing the fruit of the Spirit, not just busyness?

Critical distinction: Fruit means spiritual transformation, not worldly success. Big numbers don’t equal God’s blessing. Changed hearts do.

43. Have You Considered That God Wants You Right Where You Are?

Scripture: 1 Corinthians 7:17-24, Philippians 4:11-13

Are you despising “small beginnings” or “hidden years”? Have you considered that faithfulness in your current ordinary circumstances might be exactly what God wants?

Ask yourself:

Am I looking down on my current situation?
Is God asking me to bloom where I’m planted?
Could my restlessness be immaturity, not a new calling?

Truth from history: Jesus spent 30 years in obscurity before 3 years of ministry. Paul spent years in Arabia. Moses tended sheep for 40 years. Hidden years aren’t wasted years. They’re preparation years.

44. What Would You Do If God Would Be Glorified Regardless of the Outcome?

Scripture: Joshua 1:9, Philippians 4:13, Daniel 3:17-18

What would you attempt if you knew God would be glorified through your faithfulness, whether you succeeded or failed by worldly standards?

Ask yourself:

What would I do if results weren’t my responsibility?
Can I be faithful even if I never see success?
Am I willing to let God decide the outcome?

Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego said: “Our God is able to deliver us…but even if he does not…we will not serve your gods” (Daniel 3:17-18). That’s the faith God honours.

45. Above All: Am I Pursuing God Himself or Just His Assignments?

Scripture: Psalm 27:4, Philippians 3:8, Matthew 6:33

Is discovering your purpose more important to you than knowing God? Are you more excited about what you’ll do for God than about God Himself?

Ask yourself:

Do I want God’s gifts more than God?
Am I seeking His hand or His face?
Would I be content with God alone, even without a “special calling”?

Ultimate truth: Your primary calling is to know God and make Him known. If you pursue Him first, everything else falls into place. (Matthew 6:33)

How to Use These 45 Questions

Step 1: Start with Part 1 (Foundation Questions 1-8)

These are non-negotiable. If you’re not praying, your heart isn’t right, or you’re not walking in basic obedience, the other questions won’t help. Address these first.

Step 2: Move Through in Order

The questions are arranged from objective (Scripture, character) to subjective (feelings, desires) for a reason. Don’t skip to the “exciting” questions about your passions. Build the foundation first.

Step 3: Take Your Time

Don’t rush. Consider taking one question per day or week. Pray, journal, and listen for the Holy Spirit’s guidance.

Step 4: Discuss with Mature Believers

Share your answers with godly mentors, your pastor, or trusted friends who know both Scripture and you well. Don’t do this alone.

Step 5: Look for Patterns

God often speaks through repeated themes. What answers keep appearing across multiple questions? What is the Holy Spirit emphasising?

Step 6: Take One Small Step

Based on what you’re discovering, what’s one small, concrete action you can take this week? Faithful obedience in small things leads to clarity in big things.

Step 7: Stay Surrendered

Hold your perceived calling loosely. Be willing to adjust as God provides more clarity. Purpose discovery is a journey, not a destination.

Step 8: Remember the Hierarchy

Never pursue your specific calling at the expense of your primary calling (loving God, making disciples) or relational callings (family, church, community).

Practical Action Steps for Discovering Your God-Given Purpose

Immediate Actions (Do This Week)

1. Commit to Daily Prayer About Your Purpose (10 minutes daily)

What to do: Begin each day asking God specifically to reveal His purpose for your life.

How:

Set your alarm 10 minutes earlier.
Before checking your phone, pray: “Father, show me Your purpose for my life today”
Read one passage about calling (Ephesians 1-2, Romans 12, 1 Corinthians 12).
Journal any promptings or insights.

Why: You cannot discover God’s purpose without consistently asking Him. James 4:2 says “You do not have because you do not ask.”

2. Write Out Your Current Obedience Audit (30 minutes)

What to do: List areas where God has already spoken and assess your obedience.

How:

Draw two columns: “What God Has Clearly Asked” and “My Obedience Level”.
Be specific: Bible reading, prayer, church attendance, serving, giving, family responsibilities, etc.
Rate yourself honestly: Faithful, Inconsistent, or Disobedient.
Confess areas of disobedience and commit to faithfulness.

Why: God won’t reveal next steps if you’re not obeying current instructions. Faithfulness in small things precedes greater assignments.

3. Identify and Confess Hindering Sin (20 minutes)

What to do: Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal sin or fear blocking your purpose.

How:

Pray Psalm 139:23-24: “Search me, O God, and know my heart”.
Write down what He reveals: pride, fear, unforgiveness, lust, greed, anxiety.
Confess specifically: “I confess [specific sin]. I repent and turn from it.”
If needed, confess to another believer for accountability (James 5:16).

Why: Unconfessed sin clouds discernment. Fear paralyses obedience. Deal with these ruthlessly.

4. Schedule Three Conversations with Mature Believers (1 hour each)

What to do: Ask godly mentors, pastors, or mature Christians where they see your gifts.

How:

Choose people who know you well and know Scripture.
Email or call: “I’m seeking to discern God’s purpose for my life. Would you meet with me to share what you observe about my gifts and calling?”
Prepare specific questions: “Where do you see me thrive? What gifts do you observe? Where could I serve effectively?”
Listen humbly, take notes, look for patterns across conversations.

Why: The body often sees your gifts before you do. Community confirmation is essential to discerning calling.

5. Say “Yes” to One Current Serving Opportunity (Ongoing commitment)

What to do: Stop waiting for the perfect opportunity. Serve somewhere this week.

How:

Check your church’s volunteer needs.
Choose one area. It doesn’t have to be your “dream” role.
Commit to serving faithfully for at least 3 months.
Evaluate after 3 months: Is there fruit? Joy? Affirmation?

Why: You discover calling through action, not contemplation. Serve first, then assess fit.

Weekly Practices (Ongoing)

6. Scripture Meditation on Calling Passages (30 minutes weekly)

What to do: Deep dive into one biblical passage about calling or purpose.

How:

Choose passages like: Ephesians 2:10, 1 Corinthians 12, Romans 12:1-8, Jeremiah 29:11, Proverbs 3:5-6.
Read slowly 5 times.
Write out what it says about God’s purposes.
Pray through the passage: “God, what are You saying to me here?”
Memorise key verses.

Why: God reveals His will primarily through His Word, not feelings or circumstances.

7. Journal Your Week’s Observations (20 minutes weekly)

What to do: Track where you saw signs of purpose this week.

Journal prompts:

Where did I feel God’s pleasure this week?
What opportunities opened naturally?
What doors closed despite my efforts?
Where did I see spiritual fruit?
What problems did I notice that others missed?
What did others ask me to help with?
Where did I lose track of time serving?

Why: Patterns emerge over time. Journaling helps you see God’s consistent leading.

8. Spiritual Gifts Assessment and Development (30 minutes weekly for 4 weeks)

What to do: Identify and develop your spiritual gifts.

How:

Week 1: Take a spiritual gifts assessment (Use a biblical one).
Week 2: Study what Scripture says about your top 3 gifts.
Week 3: Discuss results with a mentor or pastor.
Week 4: Identify one way to use each gift this month.

Why: Your gifts reveal your function in the body. Knowing them clarifies where you fit.

9. Faithful Service in Your Current Role (Varies)

What to do: Excel in whatever you’re currently doing, whether in a job, ministry, or family.

How:

Do your work “as to the Lord” (Colossians 3:23).
Show up on time, prepared, with excellence.
Serve with joy, not complaint.
Ask for feedback on how to improve.
Stay humble and teachable.

Why: Faithfulness in your current assignment qualifies you for your next assignment. God promotes faithful stewards.

10. Weekly Accountability Check-In (30-60 minutes)

What to do: Meet with an accountability partner to discuss purpose discovery.

How:

Share what you’re learning from the 45 questions.
Discuss areas where you’re struggling or unclear.
Ask: “What excuses or fears do you hear me making?”
Pray together for clarity and obedience.
Set specific action steps for the coming week.

Why: We need others to speak truth, ask hard questions, and encourage perseverance.

Monthly Practices

11. Extended Prayer and Fasting for Purpose (Half-day monthly)

What to do: Set aside extended time to seek God about your calling.

How:

Skip one or two meals.
Spend 3-4 hours in prayer and Scripture reading.
Bring your journal and the 45 questions.
Ask God: “What is my assignment? Where are You leading? What’s my next step?”
Listen in silence. Don’t rush to fill the space.
Write down anything He impresses on your heart.

Why: Fasting and extended prayer demonstrate seriousness and create space to hear God clearly.

12. Purpose Discovery Review (1 hour monthly)

What to do: Review your journal entries and assess progress.

Look for:

Patterns in what energises vs. drains you.
Recurring themes in what people ask you to do.
Doors that keep opening or closing.
Areas where you see spiritual fruit.
Confirmation from multiple mature believers.
Growing clarity or persistent confusion.

Evaluate:

Am I growing in clarity about my purpose?
What lies or fears am I still believing?
What’s my next faithful step?

Why: Regular evaluation keeps you progressing rather than stagnating.

13. Read Books/Listen to Sermons on Calling (2-3 hours monthly)

What to do: Deepen your biblical understanding of calling and purpose.

Recommended resources:

Sermons on calling from trusted pastors.
Biographies of faithful Christians.

Why: Biblical teaching shapes your theology of calling and guards against unbiblical ideas about purpose.

14. Experiment with Different Service Areas (One-month trials)

What to do: If unclear about your fit, try different ministries for short periods.

How:

Choose one area you’re curious about (children’s ministry, hospitality, administration, teaching, mercy ministry, etc.).
Commit to serving there for 4 weeks.
Evaluate honestly: Is there fruit? Do others affirm this? Do I sense God’s pleasure?
After 4 weeks, continue, try something else, or return to previous role.

Why: Sometimes you discover calling through trial and error. Don’t be afraid to experiment.

Quarterly Practices

15. Comprehensive Question Review (4-6 hours quarterly)

What to do: Work through all 45 questions again, comparing to previous answers.

How:

Block out a Saturday morning or two evenings.
Answer each question thoughtfully and prayerfully.
Use a different coloured pen to track changes from last time.
Note areas of growth and areas still unclear.
Share discoveries with your mentor or accountability partner.

Why: Your understanding deepens over time. Quarterly review tracks your growth and clarifies God’s leading.

16. Purpose Retreat Day (Full day quarterly)

What to do: Spend an entire day away from distractions focusing on God’s purpose for you.

How:

Go to a park, retreat centre, or quiet place.
Bring your Bible, journal, the 45 questions, worship music.
Structure:
- Morning: Prayer and Scripture.
- Afternoon: Work through questions.
- Evening: Worship and thanksgiving.
Fast or eat simply to stay focused.
End by writing one clear action step for the next quarter.

Why: Unhurried time with God brings clarity that daily life’s busyness often obscures.

17. Meet with Church Leadership for Guidance (1-2 hours quarterly)

What to do: Schedule a meeting with a pastor or elder about your calling.

How:

Bring your journal and question responses.
Ask: “Where do you see me fitting? What gifts do you observe? What cautions would you give?”
Share what you’re sensing and ask for confirmation or correction.
Listen humbly to their wisdom and observations.
Ask if any character issues need addressing before greater responsibility.

Why: Church leaders have perspective, experience, and authority to confirm or redirect your sense of calling.

18. Evaluate Your Current Season of Life (30 minutes quarterly)

What to do: Honestly assess what season you’re in and what that means for your calling.

Ask yourself:

What are my current responsibilities? (Young children? Aging parents? Health challenges? Career demands?)
What is my actual capacity right now?
Am I trying to operate in a different season than I’m in?
How should my calling expression adjust to honour this season?
What will likely change in the next 1-3 years?

Why: Your calling’s expression changes across life seasons while its essence remains. Honor your season.

For Specific Situations

If You’re Completely Unclear About Your Purpose

Month 1: Foundation

Work through Foundation Questions 1-8 thoroughly.
Establish daily prayer and Bible reading.
Confess and address any obvious sin or fear.
Join or re-commit to a local church.

Month 2: Community Input

Have 3-5 conversations with mature believers.
Join a small group if not already in one.
Take a spiritual gifts assessment.
Start serving somewhere or anywhere.

Month 3: Experimentation

Try serving in 2-3 different areas for a few weeks each.
Journal observations after each experience.
Note where you see fruit, joy, and affirmation.
Don’t expect perfect clarity yet. Just gather data.

Month 4-6: Patterns and Commitment

Review your journals for patterns.
Choose one area to commit to for 6 months.
Continue seeking input from community.
Be faithful in small things while waiting for greater clarity.

If You Think You Know Your Calling But Need Confirmation

Week 1: Test It Against Scripture

Does it require disobeying any biblical command?
Does it align with biblical priorities?
Does it honour your relational callings?

Week 2: Seek Community Confirmation

Share with 3-5 mature believers.
Ask your church leaders for input.
If married, ensure your spouse has peace.
Look for consistent affirmation or consistent caution.

Week 3: Assess Your Readiness

Work through Character and Readiness questions (9-16).
Are you biblically qualified if it’s ministry?
Have you been faithful in smaller things?
Are you willing to sacrifice what’s required?

Week 4: Take a Small Step

Don’t quit your job or make major changes yet.
Take one small step in that direction.
Serve in that area part-time.
Test whether doors open or close.

Month 2-3: Evaluate Fruit

Is there genuine spiritual fruit?
Are others being blessed?
Is God clearly confirming through circumstances?
Do you have peace or growing anxiety?

If You’re Pursuing Ministry/Vocational Calling

Critical requirements:

Biblical qualification (1 Timothy 3, Titus 1).
Church affirmation (Acts 13:1-3).
Spiritual maturity (not a new convert – 1 Timothy 3:6).
Character above reproach (would neighbours, co-workers, family affirm this?).
Theological soundness (can you articulate and defend core doctrines?).
Proven faithfulness (track record of service and stewardship).

Action steps:

Discuss formally with church leadership.
Pursue biblical training (seminary, Bible college, or intensive biblical education).
Serve under established leaders as apprentice.
Be ordained/commissioned by your local church.
Don’t go rogue. Stay connected to church authority.

Warning signs:

Your church doesn’t affirm this calling.
Your family is suffering due to your “ministry”.
You’re seeking platform more than service.
You’re unwilling to be corrected or accountable.
You don’t meet biblical qualifications but are proceeding anyway.

If Your “Calling” Requires Major Life Changes

Before making major changes (quitting job, moving cities, career shift):

Pray extensively (3-6 months minimum of daily seeking God)
Seek multiple counsellors (at least 3-5 mature believers confirming)
Get church leadership blessing (formal approval, not just permission)
Ensure spousal unity (if married—full agreement, not reluctant compliance)
Test it incrementally (part-time or volunteer first if possible)
Provide for your family (1 Timothy 5:8—don’t be irresponsible)
Count the cost (Luke 14:28—have you calculated what this requires?)
Have peace, not just excitement (Colossians 3:15—God’s peace is a guide)

Red flags that should stop you:

Church leaders are cautioning against it.
Your spouse isn’t at peace.
It requires disobeying Scripture.
You’re running from something rather than to something.
You haven’t proven faithful in your current situation.
You can’t provide for your family.
Multiple mature believers are saying “wait” or “no”.

Even if it’s right, timing matters:

God’s will in the wrong timing is still disobedience.
Be patient. If it’s God’s calling, He’ll confirm it clearly over time.
Don’t manipulate circumstances to force doors open.
Wait for clear, multiple confirmations.

Tools and Resources

Create a “Purpose Discovery Journal”

Include these sections:

1. Daily Prayer Log

Date and what you prayed about your purpose
Any Scripture that stood out
Promptings or impressions from the Spirit

2. Observations

Where I saw potential calling indicators this week
Doors that opened or closed
Fruit that appeared
Feedback from others

3. Question Responses

Answers to the 45 questions
Date each response
Update when understanding changes

4. Confirmed Patterns

Themes that keep appearing
Consistent affirmations from others
Areas of repeated fruit

5. Action Steps

Concrete steps I’m taking
Results from those steps
Next steps to take

Use a “Calling Confirmation Checklist”

Before committing to what you think is your calling, confirm:

It aligns with Scripture
3+ mature believers affirm it
Church leadership blesses it
My spouse has peace (if married)
I’m biblically qualified (if ministry)
I’ve been faithful in smaller things
Doors are opening naturally
There’s spiritual fruit
I’m willing to suffer for it
It serves others, not just me
I have peace, not just excitement
It doesn’t require neglecting current responsibilities
I’ve given it adequate time to test (6+ months)
I’m pursuing God, not just the assignment

If you can check most of these, proceed with faith. If most are unchecked, wait and keep seeking.

Build a “Purpose Mentorship Team”

Assemble 3-5 people who will speak into your calling:

A mature believer who knows you well and knows Scripture deeply.
A church leader (pastor or elder) who has authority in your life.
Someone in your desired field (if vocational calling) who can give practical wisdom.
Your spouse (if married). Their input is essential.
A peer who’s also seeking God’s purposes and can journey with you.

Meet with them quarterly or as needed for guidance, correction, and encouragement.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Mistake 1: Seeking a Calling Without Seeking God

The trap: You want to know your assignment more than you want to know the One who assigns.

The truth: Your primary calling is to know and love God. If you pursue Him, purpose follows. If you pursue purpose, you’ll end up empty.

Fix: Make knowing God your priority. Purpose discovery is a byproduct of intimacy with Him.

Mistake 2: Waiting for a Burning Bush

The trap: You’re waiting for a dramatic, unmistakable sign before you do anything.

The truth: God usually reveals calling gradually through faithful obedience in ordinary circumstances, not through spectacular signs.

Fix: Stop waiting for fireworks. Take the next faithful step with what you already know.

Mistake 3: Ignoring Current Responsibilities While Chasing “Calling”

The trap: You neglect your family, job, or church to pursue your “dream calling.”

The truth: God never calls you to sin by abandoning your current biblical responsibilities.

Fix: Be faithful where you are. Your current responsibilities are part of God’s calling for you right now.

Mistake 4: Pursuing Calling Without Community Confirmation

The trap: You’re convinced of your calling despite no one else seeing it.

The truth: God confirms genuine calling through the body. If your church doesn’t see it, that’s a major red flag.

Fix: Submit your sense of calling to church leadership and mature believers. If they don’t confirm it, wait.

Mistake 5: Confusing Calling with Career

The trap: You think your calling must be your job.

The truth: Your calling is about who you are in Christ and how you live for His glory – in whatever work you do.

Fix: Your “secular” job can be your calling if you do it for God’s glory. Don’t assume you need to be in “ministry.”

Mistake 6: Letting Passion Trump Scripture

The trap: “I’m passionate about this, so it must be God’s calling.”

The truth: Your heart is deceitful (Jeremiah 17:9). Passion can be fleeting or even sinful.

Fix: Test passion against Scripture, community, and fruit. Passion is a factor, not the factor.

Mistake 7: Giving Up Too Soon

The trap: You tried something for a few months, it was hard, so you quit.

The truth: All genuine callings involve difficulty, opposition, and testing. Perseverance reveals true calling.

Fix: Commit for longer periods at least 6-12 months before evaluating whether something is your calling.

Mistake 8: Operating Outside Your Season

The trap: You’re trying to fulfill a calling that doesn’t fit your current life season.

The truth: A mother of toddlers has a different calling expression than an empty nester. Honor your season.

Fix: Ask: “What can I faithfully do in this season?” Don’t try to operate in a season you’re not in.

Red Flags: When Your “Calling” May Not Be from God

Not every sense of calling is from God. Here are warning signs:

Red Flag 1: It Requires Disobeying Scripture

Signs:

You’d have to lie, cheat, or manipulate to pursue it.
It requires neglecting your family.
It demands you abandon your church.
It involves any sin as a means to the end.

Response: This is not from God. Period. God never calls you to sin.

Red Flag 2: No One Else Sees It

Signs:

Every mature believer is cautioning against it.
Your church leadership doesn’t affirm it.
Your spouse isn’t at peace (if married).
You’re the only one who “sees” this calling.

Response: If God is calling you, He’ll confirm it through others. Isolated conviction without community confirmation is dangerous.

Red Flag 3: It’s All About Your Glory

Signs:

You’re excited about the platform, recognition, and influence.
You wouldn’t do this if it were hidden.
You’re comparing yourself to others and wanting their spotlight.
You’re seeking applause more than service.

Response: This is selfish ambition, not God’s calling. Repent and realign your motives.

Red Flag 4: You’re Running Away

Signs:

You’re using “calling” to escape difficulty.
You’re avoiding problems at home, work, or church.
You want this because your current situation is hard.
You haven’t dealt with issues where you are.

Response: Running is not calling. Address what you’re avoiding before pursuing new directions.

Red Flag 5: There’s No Fruit After Extended Time

Signs:

You’ve pursued this for years with zero spiritual fruit.
Lives aren’t being changed.
There’s no multiplication or lasting impact.
It’s all activity with no spiritual results.

Response: Genuine calling produces spiritual fruit over time. If there’s none, reconsider whether this is truly your calling.

Red Flag 6: It Requires Foolish Financial Decisions

Signs:

You’d have to go into significant debt.
You can’t provide for your family.
You’re being financially irresponsible or presumptuous.
You’re expecting God to miraculously bail you out of poor planning.

Response: God calls you to wise stewardship, not foolish presumption. If you can’t provide for your family, this isn’t the right time.

Red Flag 7: You’re Unqualified But Proceeding Anyway

Signs:

You don’t meet biblical qualifications for ministry (if that’s your calling).
You lack necessary skills, training, or maturity.
You’re a new believer pursuing leadership.
Character issues haven’t been addressed.

Response: Getting qualified isn’t lack of faith. It’s wisdom. Get the training, develop the character, grow in maturity first.

Red Flag 8: You’re Unteachable

Signs:

You reject all correction about this calling.
You dismiss anyone who questions it.
You’re convinced everyone else is wrong.
You refuse accountability.

Response: Unteachability is pride. If you can’t receive correction, you’re not ready for any calling.

Biblical Examples of Purpose Discovery

Study these biblical examples to learn how God reveals calling:

Moses: Gradual Preparation

Passage: Exodus 2-4

Lessons:

40 years in Pharaoh’s house (preparation).
40 years in the wilderness (character development).
Finally called at age 80 (God’s timing, not his).
Made excuses but God answered them.
Had to let go of his plans to embrace God’s.

Application: God’s preparation is often long and hidden. Don’t despise the waiting years. They’re shaping you.

David: Faithful in Small Things

Passage: 1 Samuel 16-17

Lessons:

Anointed as king but remained a shepherd.
Years between anointing and throne.
Faithful with sheep before leading people.
Used current skills (slinging stones) for God’s purposes.
Proved himself before being promoted.

Application: Be faithful in your current “shepherd” role. God promotes those who are faithful in little.

Nehemiah: Burden Becomes Assignment

Passage: Nehemiah 1-2

Lessons:

Heard about need and wept.
Prayed for months before acting.
Used his position (cupbearer) as a platform.
Got authority’s blessing (king’s permission).
Organised others to accomplish the mission.

Application: What breaks your heart might be your assignment. But test it with prayer, authority, and wise planning.

Paul: Dramatic Call, Long Preparation

Passage: Acts 9, Galatians 1-2

Lessons:

Dramatic conversion and call (Damascus Road).
Still spent 3 years in Arabia (preparation).
Worked under Barnabas (apprenticeship).
Church commissioned him (Acts 13:1-3).
Adapted his approach but never his message.

Application: Even dramatic callings require preparation. Don’t rush the development phase.

Esther: Positioned for “Such a Time as This”

Passage: Esther 4

Lessons:

Didn’t seek her position (providence placed her).
Initially hesitant about her purpose.
Mordecai’s challenge: Maybe you’re here for this.
Required courage and risk.
Used her unique position to save her people.

Application: Where has God positioned you? Your current “accidental” position might be sovereignly ordained.

Prayers for Discovering Your Purpose

Prayer 1: For Revelation

“Father, I want to know Your purposes for my life. Not so I can make a name for myself, but so I can glorify You and serve Your kingdom. Open my eyes to see what You’re calling me to. Give me wisdom to discern Your voice from my own desires and from the enemy’s lies. Lead me step by step. I trust that You’re more interested in revealing my purpose than I am in discovering it. Show me the next step. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Prayer 2: For Surrender

“Lord Jesus, I confess I’ve been more in love with the idea of a ‘calling’ than with You. I’ve wanted the assignment more than the Assigner. Forgive me. I surrender my dreams, my plans, my ambitions. If You never give me a ‘special calling,’ help me to be content serving You faithfully wherever I am. Break my selfish ambition. Kill my pride. Make me willing to be hidden, small, and unrecognised if that’s what You want. Your glory, not mine. Amen.”

Prayer 3: For Courage

“Heavenly Father, I sense You calling me to something that terrifies me. I feel unqualified, inadequate, and overwhelmed. Like Moses, I want to give You every excuse. But I know Your power is made perfect in weakness. Give me courage to obey. Replace my fear with faith. Help me trust You with outcomes. I’m willing, even though I’m afraid. Lead me forward. I’ll follow. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Prayer 4: For Contentment in the Waiting

“Lord God, I’m frustrated. I want clarity now, and You’re silent. I want to move forward, and You’re saying ‘wait.’ Help me trust Your timing. Teach me patience. Show me how to be faithful right where I am whilst I wait for greater clarity. Don’t let me waste these waiting years. Use them to prepare me for what’s ahead. I trust Your timing is perfect, even when I don’t understand it. Amen.”

Prayer 5: For Faithfulness in the Ordinary

“Father, I confess I’ve despised the ordinary, mundane work You’ve given me. I’ve been looking for something ‘bigger’ and ‘better’ whilst neglecting to be faithful in small things. Forgive me. Help me see that there is no small obedience in Your kingdom. Give me grace to be faithful with little so You can entrust me with much. Let me serve with excellence and joy right where I am. Even if I’m here for the rest of my life, help me glorify You. Amen.”

A Final Word: You Already Have a Calling

Here’s what you need to hear: You don’t need to “find” a calling. You already have one.

If you belong to Christ, you’ve been called:

Called to be holy (1 Peter 1:15-16).
Called to love God and others (Matthew 22:37-39).
Called to make disciples (Matthew 28:19-20).
Called to do everything for God’s glory (1 Corinthians 10:31).

This is your calling. Everything else is how you live it out in your specific circumstances.

Stop waiting for a “special calling” before you start living for God. You already have your calling. Now live it faithfully wherever you are.

The specific assignments – the “what” and “where” of your calling – will become clear as you’re faithful in the “who” and “why” of your calling (being a faithful follower of Jesus who loves God and loves others).

Go love God with everything you have. Love the people right in front of you. Make disciples wherever you are. Work as unto the Lord. Be faithful in small things.

Your assignment

Do that faithfully, and one day you’ll look back and realise: you’ve been walking in your calling all along.

For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. (Ephesians 2:10, NKJV)

God has already prepared good works for you to walk in. Your job isn’t to invent them. It’s to discover them through faithful obedience.

Now go. Be faithful where you are. Serve with what you have. Love God, love others, make disciples.

That’s your calling. Walk in it.